Psychic Children Who Are Afraid July 24, 2008
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By Dr. Caron Goode
We receive a lot of questions about psychic and intuitive children who are scared, and a parent doesn’t know how to handle the fear. Because this topic of helping children feel safe is such an incredibly important concept, I am offering a free conference call to offer counseling and coaching, perhaps quick “psychic check-ins” to see which specific help a child might need. The group is limited to 7 parents.
If you have an interest, please register at FREE Children Who See Ghosts Tele-Conference, and I will send you the call in details by email.
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I would definately like to join in on this. My 3 yrs old started this a few nights ago about being scared. She says she sees colors coming at her. she has also had…her “friend” Nelly who seems to fly in the sky, especially when we are driving in the car, but she is not afraid of her. The colors thing at night petrifies her and I don’t know what to do. So, help with this would be so great!
My 3 year old started talking about “Patrick” a few months ago. He says he looks in his window at night and opens his door. When he talks about monsters, he talks about Patrick. He says he’s a mean boy and that he scares him. Sometimes he wakes up at night screaming, “Leave me alone!”
I dismissed the reflection of a man in our greenhouse window in a picture I took, the dog barking at nothing in our house and seeing our rocking chair rocking by itself. But the thought of something waking up my child and scaring him in the middle of the night really bothers me.
My 3 children have always been psychic. When they got older, they did show more fear, which I feel comes from not knowing “why”. I also have psychic abilities, but not as strong as my children, or maybe just different. I try to lead by example. When my children are afraid to walk into the living room to turn off the lights at night, I boldly & fearlessly walk to the living room ahead of them & show them that I “own” my space. But then, my children “see” things better than me. I’ve always taught my children to pray for protection from Mother/Father God & their guardian angels. I remind them that Mother/Father God is ALWAYS standing right next to them. I’ve also asked my kids, “who made you?” They answer, “God”. Who made them? (the ghosts, spirits, whatever) God? Yes! The only difference between you & them is that you have a physical body & you don’t. When we run into negative energy, we pray for Mother/Father God to help that energy go home to the light, or at least to leave our space. Praying helps alot in calming their fears.
I would truly appreciate any help for my 3 year old son. He has had a “friend” he calls Dodo for over a year now. At first, we just thought he had made up an imaginary friend, but now we believe that Dodo may be some sort of spirit. Our son gives us details about Dodo, and there is also some sort of negative energy that he senses that really frightens him. He is terrified to go to bed at night because he says that there is a “monster” that talks to him and won’t let him sleep. He is now sleeping in a tent in his room (zipped up) with the lights on, with our dog, and with his entire body covered by his blanket. It breaks my heart to see him so terrified, and I believe in the things he says, as I have always had my own paranormal experiences and have sensed the same energies in our home. More and more things are happening in the house, and his terror increases.
Hi Angela, Wow, it breaks my heart to know how your son goes to bed scared every night. If only we could save our kids from the fear sometimes! Is it possible to move the tent into a hallway, outside the master bedroom door, anywhere closer to you? I think you have to remove his body from the fearful environment as the first step. Why not ask him where he would like to put his tent. Please let me know where he wants his tent.
Please tell me more about Dodo. Was this a friendly friend in the beginning, and then your son became scared later? Or was your son afraid of Dodo from the start? ask your son to describe Dodo’s scary energy in terms he can understand: What color is it? How big or tall is it? What does it feel like? Yummy? Icky? Please use your words, but you get the idea!
A third thing to do is to help him feel safe in that ghostly sphere. In the physical world, he is armed with his dog, tent, lights and blanket. How about his safety factors in Dodo’s world. Can your son imagine an angel, a light, a superhero, anyone at all who would serve as his protector in that world. It helps a lot believe me. Let me know what your son comes up with.
Please see the recent posts this week as there are several coping strategies that help calm children and move them through fear. The use of empathic touch is extremely helpful as are the soothing acupuncture points. These techniques are found in my book, Help Kids Cope with Stress & Trauma.
Finally, I am going to host a free hour of psychic help next week and then one the following week. Please see the posts here, or you will receive an email announcement. I will limit the conference call to seven moms and their questions about their scared psychic kids. Feel free to join us if you think it would help.
I look forward to a report of the progress. I appreciate your sharing because you never know how many other three year olds might have the same experiences.
Hi Caron I have a 4yo daughter who I believe is psychic and has been from the start. When she was about 2yo she used to see a “Man With The Spiders” wearing a jacket and a hat. Even at 2yo it was a very clear description of what was REALLY scaring her to DEATH~! I asked her recently if she still saw the “Man With Spiders” and she said “No he is gone!”
She told me around the same time when I asked her to do something and she wasn”t budging! She said “Mama, I an old lady!!!!” She went on later to say that she had 4 babies who were all in heaven now. She describes that they were in a car when they went to heaven and that “blood was everywhere” as she points to her knees and says they are broken!!! She has even had an episode where she seemed to be confused saying” I have to go help my babies with their boo-boos…I have to help them…I have to go to heaven now!” Physically she was trying to get away from me pulling to get out of my grasp! This was during the daylight hours…not at night when she was sleeping! On that topic…she is restless most nights and does a bit of talking in her sleep but most are unintelligentable.
She also has seen spirits that she says are “scaring her”…the most recent one just a few days ago…she said it was a man she didn’t know. Later that day we were notified of the passing of her father’s cousin who was 58yo around the time that she saw the man. That instance was very similar to one that she had for her father’s aunt who passed away a year and a half ago when she was 2yo. She RAN to me on this one to HIDE near me under the covers of the bed!
About a month ago she told me that my mother was with her in the livingroom playing lego’s with her. As much as I believe that she really does not know how to lie at this point (she has not started preschool as yet). I asked her to ask my mother a few questions that she had no idea what the answers were….let alone understand the question!!!! All the questions were answered correctly!! From what her favorite drink was when she was here on earth? to What was the color of her car when she was here on earth? Lastly to What she missed the most since she was in heaven! The third one brought me to tears as you can imagine!!!
I am a stay at home mother and as much time as I spend with her…she is constantly coming to find me! She has to KNOW where I am at all the time! She seems to do this way more with me than with her father who HAS been known to actually SEE and/or feel my mother’s spirit several times!!!
So that said……I could REALLY use some input as to how to handle this gift that she appears to have. I do believe in the “psychic realm” BUT we are Catholic and she is due to start Catholic Preschool on August 29th!!! I do want to stifle this gift if at all possible but HOW do you explain to her at 4yo that it is ok to talk about it to some people and not to others!!! The poor kid has enough to think about as it is!!!
I would appreciate any guidance you may be able to offer me regarding my daughter!
Cheryl,
It sounds as though you have quite a little girl on your hands and I can imagine how challenging this must be for you. Although I am not the expert with the scary side of psychic experiences (my two youngest are psychic, but not with the fear), it sounds like the story your daughter relives with herself as a woman who lost 4 children is a past life bleed through she still remembers here in this existence. I think working with someone who can help her heal the energy or even sitting with her and allowing her to talk it through would be helpful (Caron may be able to assist with the bleedthrough as I have had many myself).
She is evidentally very connected to the spirit realm and it doesn’t sound like this has changed much in her short few years here. As for the school situation, if you feel she would understand the difference sharing these experiences with you and not talking about them in school, talk with her about it however, she may have these experiences in school which could lead to her being distracted or losing focus which can lead to people misinterpreting her actions as attention deficit or some other diagnosis. Just be prepared for the possibility. See how it goes or you may have to consider another schooling option. Unfortunately, this is occuring for a lot of children and the first, best step is being aware of it as her mother. It may not be easy, but they are the gifts she has and they are very real so they need to be paid attention to.
I hope this helps you some and if it brings up more questions, please don’t hesitate to contact us.
Hi Cheryl
Thanks for your comments. We are happy to help. I agree with Tara that you have a gifted child, one whose intuitive intelligence in these early years is comparable to a musical prodigy’s natural ear for music. As her gifts progress, she will need your guidance, and I suggest you have a psychic or intuitive parent coach who can guide you. It is just like a parent investing in a math tutor or music teacher for their child.
First a few comments: Her experience of being a mama with four babies who were now in heaven is not an unusual experience. Other preschoolers experience memories. We can call them other lives or the ability of a child to plug into the collective memories of other people. It really doesn’t matter what we believe about it, so much as how we help our children move through it. The memories are within their psyche, and they can’t turn off their internal television because as parents, we want them to do so. I have coached several parents whose sons experienced dreams of dying in a previous war, and we watched to see how they integrated this into their present life. One child wanted soldiers, but only those dressed on gray and blue uniforms (Civil war), and he proceeded to play for two years, staging battles, killing soldiers, dragging cannons over make believe hills. One day he simply quit. His single mom is a peaceful, quiet person who never saw herself with a son involved in war. Her son’s behavior was disconcerting to her, and playing it out was the perfect move for him to complete whatever memories or pictures he had. We used play as his therapy because it was safe way to observe how he was managing their inner memories. This little boy quit having nightmares, and every afternoon devoted time to this play, sometimes with mom, sometimes by himself.
Analogy…what can you and your daughter “act out” when she has such experiences. What can you make real in this physical world to make it easier for her to deal with (and you too!)
My point is that our clues on how to handle such situations come from our children. You daughter sounds like she worked through her experience pretty well, being guided by her feelings as to what she had to do. I’d give her leeway in this area, so she can learn to trust herself, even if how she acts the event out, appears not comfortable to you. If you are unsure how to handle it, ask her, “Do you need my help? can I hold you?”
From the few experiences you describe, your child has an emotional connection to those within your sphere of influence–family? friends? in that she receives the signals out there that they have passed or are connected to them on the other side. Why she is attuned to this specific radio channel may be that she is a member of your emotional family, and as her spheres of influence grow, her connections to a wider circle of psychic activity will also grow, and her psychic experiences may be different. You know this or sense this already, and are asking what to say and how to prepare?
I was a Catholic most of my life, and have had intuitively gifted children. The two don’t need to be at odds with each other. First and foremost, let me ask you what pact or soul agreement do you think you and your daughter have? As gifted as your child is, I would explain to her teacher that she is gifted in the realm of intuitive intelligence and has intuitive moments. For example, she becomes aware of her grandmother who is watching over her and may mention it in class. You would appreciate the teachers acknowledgment without a lot of drama or over reaction. I saw these children in school 20 and 10 years ago, so it isn’t a freaky thing. If your daughter brings it up in school, as I am not sure a spontaneous four year old could wait until she got home to tell mom, you would like the teacher to tell you so you can follow up at home. You are your daughter’s advocate and protector until she can be her own. Don’t worry at all about what others will think. Have faith in yourself and in your daughter so each of you will come from strength and conviction about her gift, not scared about it or needing to apologize for it.
Your daughter is dealing with three realities. 1. her inner world or psychic world. So she has conversations and visions which to you would seem like a television constantly playing in the background. When the vibrations are strong, loud or direct, she watches that inner TV a while and has reactions and feelings that it triggers in her physical body. 2. Her feelings which over run her sometimes, and need attention immediately. So parent coaching here on managing her fears, restoring her calm, helping her make right decisions in acting or expressing what she gets. Many helpful suggestions are in a book called Help Kids Cope with Stress & Trauma. Next Memorial day weekend, we’ll be training parents and parent coaches in how to work with intuitive and psychic children if you are interested in hands on experiences. 3. Her physical world in which you are her safety anchor and roots. What a gift that you can be at home with her to help her accept the disparate realities and being able to live in both.
So we all agree you have a gifted child. My sense is she’ll have this openness all of her life and your work will be in empowering her decisions on how to interpret what she gets, manage the feelings that accompany it, and finally, how to use her intuitive intelligence.
I feel like you know these things already, so perhaps we offered new info, or simply validation. I am interested in what your agreement might be with her as a parent in her life. Also what specific questions can we respond to for you?
Caron
Wow, I am glad that I happened upon this website. I have two kids with similar experiences with a lot of the above: scary balls of color at night, robed beings that speak to and spread negative energy to the kids at night, even energies that seem to enter into the kids and make them act out suddenly. The fear that they each feel at times borders on total panic. The strategy that has worked best for us is to continually “cleanse” the house and the bedrooms. The kids like to be involved in the “ceremony” where we ask for protection from Christ, Archangel Michael and all of their guides and angels.
Even so, the fear is always hanging around the edges ready to take them over again.
Does anyone else have experience with dark, robed beings whose heads hang down in the back (but they cover the heads with a hood)? My son says that these beings are not from Earth. My daughter has recently described these beings independently from her brother.
Thanks for any input!
Ginger,
What about the robed beings do your children feel is negative? I only ask because the sense I get is that they are a priest like figure perhaps from another place or time and often when children show fear about something, we mistake it for being negative when in fact it is quite scary for children to see things others can’t see. Great to use Archangel Michael, Christ and the angels. I surround our house at night with Michael as well and feel great comfort in doing so.
May I also ask if the children are around other people during the day when they seem to act out at night? Sensitive/ intuitive children often absorb the energies of people around them and can act out the feelings through their behavior. It can often come at a time when they feel the most relaxed and safe. My oldest son acts out when he has been affected by people or situations around him, and my younger son would also see the colors at night; it was directly related to the emotions he was feeling or carrying within him.
I don’t have any additional thoughts about the robed beings, but perhaps someone else will have something to add.
Thanks Tara,
Well, although it is difficult to get the kids to talk about these beings, my son has mentioned that, at least in his mind, these robed beings want him to hurt himself. He is reluctant to talk about it unless he has just been to a cranial sacral session and feels safe. We have not had a bad episode with him for a while. By the way, cranial sacral therapy has been a huge help for both kids!!
The acting out definitely happens when the kids are exposed to someone whose energy doesn’t sit well with them. My daughter specifically seems to change immediately in some situations when I tell her that she can’t do what she wants to do. The best way to explain it is that I sense that I am suddenly facing an enormous entity with tremendous power. It is almost like she has a protector who doesn’t like it when I am strict with her. It might be helpful to know that she is adopted from South America. Unfortunately she is still unable to distinguish between her own reaction, and the reaction of her “protector.” I have started to address the “Protector” when this happens in order to explain my motives. This seems to work incredibly well.
Thanks for your input. I need to track a bit better with what might stimulate the fear during the day.
Hi,
My 11 year old has always been afraid to sleep in his room. When he was younger, we would find him in various places in the house in the morning. I know he sees things but he never verbally told us until yesterday that his room creeps him out and he sees people. He wants to sleep near us and even asks me to shut his door when he sleeps on our floor~which is not very often. We have tried various things throughout the years to offer him comfort: praying, clearing negative energy, telling them to go to the light etc. Nothing seems to work and not sure where to go from here. Any suggestions? Just a side note-My son also has ADHD which is controlled well with energy healing. My gut has told me for several year we need to move-but my husband hates change. HELP!
Ginger,
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I commend you for paying so much attention to the needs of your children and think the support you are giving them is invaluable to their existence. I will definitely have to leave this one to someone with a bit more experience in these areas. Obviously, I believe and trust wholeheartedly what our children tell us, so if your son thinks there is something dark about these beings, all I can suggest is talking with someone who has knowledge of beings from other dimensions, perhaps the astral or someplace I am not aware of
Good luck and please continue to share your stories, I know you are not alone!
Becky and Ginger, I’d like to share a whole new concept of FACING embracing that I learned over the years in my personal experiences and in working with children. Sometimes this approach seems like common sense to some parents and then revolutionary to others. The approach is to teach our children not to be afraid of what they see, and not try to clear anything away. Rather we show them how to face and embrace the situation and therein gain the inner strength of courage.
Before I go further into the approach, let me explain how we want intuitive children to learn certain strengths so they use and trust their gifts as adults. Our children see things in a nonphysical world, which we cannot verify, but we believe them from our own gut, feeling it is valid, or trusting their senses. There are two things going on here: 1. Our children see things. 2. What they see scares them. We deal with what they see in the nonphysical world and feel as vert real in their bodies.
Our reaction to frightened children is to protect them or help them fight it. This is not a long-lived behavior we want to keep modeling because it tells children that their environment is not safe. This is putting a band aid on the environment which the children have to live in every night. So this new habit of facing and embracing takes courage and kids need help from you. Our goal is to help child learn to control and feel good about their environment, and is done in ritual like some parents have already explained. What I am talking about is not “night terrors,” but intuitive episodes or psychic events. Night terrors are a different physiological experience.
Children have the power to say no and to tell the beings to go away. Yet children may not have the voice. So if NO is what you are after, than practice saying no with your child from the gut. The voice has to come from deep within the gut, much like you would say NO to a dog who stole your sandwich—from the gut. This is the power of facing fear, not yet embracing it.
Embracing requires some sort of communciation, and you have to take your clues from your child, have enough savvy to face them with your child and model the concept of embracing. Have your child talk to the being, and if he won’t, then you do so through a series of questions that your child can answer, feel or respond to in some way.
1. get a name or have your child name it something. A name makes it more familiar and less scary, like Protector that Ginger uses.
2. Next get answers to the WH questions: Why are you here? What do you want? Where do you want to be?
3. Love dissipates fear, so with your child, what is the next loving thing to do? Say, “I love you?” Send a beam of light from your heart to the being? Watch the light dissolve the fearful energy? Say, “the loving thing for you to do is go away? If they won’t, then ask for help from an angel, a friend or a family member to come take the being away.
4. Confront them: What do you want? This is not the place for what you need, go elsewhere?
5. “Where is elsewhere? Tell them to turn to their right and find the light…..wait a moment and then ask if they can see the light. The light is the door, and ensure they move to it and through it.
6. If all else fails, then ask for help from the angels or friends on the other side. And I don’t mean pretend it is happening. I mean ask your child, Is the angel there? Do you see her yet? You tell me when he comes. Get the idea?
Your child is a winner, and we have to adapt to their comfortable world. If their world is not comfortable, we have to think outside the box, much of the time, flying by the seat of our own intuition, and learning to trust. That is our children’s gift to us.
So our long range goal is to help our children face and embrace whatever shows up in their physical or nonphysical worlds. The best and simplest method I can give is in the heart. Have your child imagine the brightest sun possible in the heart center, and this light becomes their laser light which absorbs their fears, helps them gain inner strength and then face the beings they see.
Please try these and provide your experiences for others. You can see that we all support each other here. We’ve all been there and made it through……..THAT’S THE GOOD NEWS.
I knew my son was gifted when he was little and babbled to walls. I always new I also was “in tune”, as is my mother. I thought this pattern would changed as he got older but now that he has turned 6 it seems like it’s back or never left him.
It all started with my son seeing my grandfather I knew it was him I could smell the tobacco he used to smoke, he was 4 months old.
Then there was an in counter at our old home, he kept saying he saw a man with a black hat in his room watching him sleep. I would ask him if he was scared and he said no.
Last night he said that there is a man in my room looking at the dresser where I put his new little model boat.
He is a very sweet and kind child, which is why I’m asking if anyone else’s children have the same temperament? Why are they so susceptible? He has never encountered a scary ghost or entity and he isn’t scared but I just don’t know what to tell him as to what he is seeing? I don’t want him to think that there are monsters in our home, or around him. Any suggestions?
Ann,
You could be describing my son to a “t.” He is now 7 and has been seeing things since he was quite little. He has seen my father since his death 3 years ago and continues to see him on a regular basis. He is super sensitive, empathic and has an amazingly soothing energy everyone comments on. He is not often afraid either unless there is something happening he doesn’t quite understand.
You are doing well to support him and at this point, the best thing to do is continue to let him share his experiences with you. As long as you don’t have any fear that he could pick up on, he should be fine and there is no reason to assume he will fear monsters in your home.
This is a part of who these children are and we are learning to parent them as we go. Keep doing what you’re doing!
Hello! I’m so happy to have stumbled across this site! Here are some wonderful people who won’t think I’m crazy when I say that my son (age 11) woke me up one night to say “I can’t sleep in my room, there are PEOPLE in there!” Or the other day when I was helping my younger son (age 10) with some school work and noticed my older son sitting on the stairs – I asked what was up as he had earlier said he was going upstairs to draw (his favorite past time) and he said “Well, um, there’s a lady up there and she’s looking for her kids…she can’t find her kids.” So, I took his hand and we walked upstairs and I had him tell her to “Go to the light, go to God” and tell her that her kids are with Him. I hope that was the right thing to do as he described her as wearing a long dress – sounded like late 1800’s – so I figured her kids must have passed on by now. He hasn’t seen her since and actually later on said he got a “flash image” of her smiling. Like both of my parents, I’ve seen a spirit or 2 – but I hear/smell more than I see – but my boy sees/hears way more than any of us! We did find a little humor in all this when one night he asked out loud for the spirits not to come at night, daytime would be better because he’s less scared then and “someone” told him “No Day!” But actually, he’s had more restful sleep since then. Both of my boys have been seeing a ghost kitty in the house over the last week – we’re not sure who it is – so it’s been an interesting challenge for us to figure this one out. We have recently discovered that my 11 year old can run his hands just above – well sort of “scan” someone and can feel a temperature change (heat) where there is an injury, pain or illness. So we shall see what transpires with that. When he was four, he woke me up completely frantic one morning asking me over and over “Is Chicago going to burn again?!! Is Chicago going to burn again?!!” I asked what was wrong and he went on to tell me this story of being caught up in this big fire in Chicago and how hot it was and how hard it was to breathe, and there was smoke everywhere and “everyone was running…and I couldn’t find my mommy! But then I woke up and saw you and I was okay.” So, was he describing the Great Chicago Fire of 1871? Sure sounded like it. When he was 5, he told me about meeting “Papa’s daddy” – my grandfather who passed away when I was a teen, said they met in a place that was “like a church, but not a church.” My younger son has seen a thing or two as well – but not nearly as much as my other boy although, it does seem to be “ramping up” with him, so I may be popping on here about him in the near future! I know I am just babbling away – but I’ve never known anyone else with children like this and it’s nice to be able to tell my stories to someone that can say “Oh, something similar happened with my son (or daughter!).” I love my friends but I don’t have a one that wouldn’t think I was completely off my rocker if I told some of the things that have happened with us! Anyway, it’s nice to “meet” you all!
Patti
Hi Patti,
I applaud you on you awareness and ability to translate your son’s experiences. It sounds like you and he are perfectly in sync with one another. No we don’t think your crazy. We’ve walked that route and that’s why we are here now. tara and I believe so firmly that intuitive intelligence is in a renaissance right now. We are actively recruiting and training parent coaches who want to work in this field with parents and children to assure them that we are all normal. The need is truly huge, and we feel there are a lot of mothers and fathers who feel like we do. The last decade of brain science research actually can show now on CAT scans how intuitive people think and which part of their brain they access. Thanks for finding us, and welcome. It’s nice to “meet” you too!
Hi Ann
thanks for accepting your son as he is. You are right that if his gift is back at the current age, that most likely he will have this level of intuitive intelligence that puts him in touch with the nonphysical world.
To be honest, the best gift you could give him is listening, being interested and accepting his gift as you have. a lot of us want to say something, and sometimes listening calmly conveys much more to your son that you are okay with all of it.
Intuitive is your son’s personal style, the way he responds to his world, which includes physical reality, nonphysical reality, and most likely the spiritual realm. So don’t think of him as susceptible, think of him as talented in the intuitive area like other children would be talented in physical skills, musical skills, writing skills etc. What other questions can we answer for you?
Caron,
I’m writing in re: to the radio show on Aug. 27th/08. I called re: when Ally felt someone watching her when she tries to fall asleep. You told us that it is her own angel was watching her & you suggested that I lie down w/ Ally & ask her angel what her name is. We did what you suggested that nite. We did find out her name. Ally feels better now that she can call her angel by name any time she wants.
I also mentioned how my son Elijah was being “pushed” by someone. You saw that it was a dwarf type “bully”. You suggested that we ask Ally’s angel to escort it out of our house & off the property. We asked, she granted our request. Ally told me that her angel showed her a “video” in her head of what happened: Ally saw her angel lovingly, but assertively escort the bully dwarf off the property. She went as far as our driveway entrance. Ally saw the dwarf had his arms crossed & he looked angry. Once off the property, he just ran down the road.
My younger daughter, Jamie, mentioned to me for the 1st time that nite that she had a problem w/ someone squeezing her throat & it made it hard for her to breathe when she’s trying to go to sleep. So we asked Ally’s angel to also escort this entity off the property. In Ally’s vision, she saw it as an orange, spikey orb. Jamie saw it as an old woman.
Ally said that she also saw in her vision that we have a gate made of “light” at our property lines (we have a 1 acre lot). At our driveway entrance, there’s a gate that opens & closes w/ 2 “guards” who stand on the outside, wearing armor & carrying arrows & spears.
We haven’t hiked up the hill behind our house, yet, to find the old shaman woman. We plan to do that, hopefully, this week sometime.
We also talked w/ Ally’s angel to ask for help w/ our pets. We have 3 cats & 1 new hamster. We explained the situation, asked for help & Allly’s angel told her that she will have to call in “another” angel to work w/ the animals, but this request, too, would be fulfilled.
After all this, our talking & praying, we told my son, Elijah, what had happened & asked him if he saw, heard, or felt anything? He said that our house feels “lighter”. None of my kids have felt any negative energy since that nite.
I also wanted you to know, Caron, that when you asked if you could come to my house, I felt you arrive!! If felt like a “tingle” down the back of my head. Just thought that was V-E-R-Y interesting, so I thought I’d share that point.
Caron, I am sooo grateful for all your help. This was a very good experience for my children & myself. It made a great deal of difference when my children really realizes that their angles are RIGHT THERE ALL THE TIME!! & that they can call on them at any time! “Ask & it shall be done.” Praise the Lord!!
Thank you again & I look forward to this week’s radio conference!!
Hi Darlene
I am thrilled that you took the time with your children to follow through on the suggestions. Your willingness to take action to understand the nonphysical world around your home and property is the crux of helping your children change from reactive to proactive. Action that they can take on their own behalf will help them negotiate their worlds successfully. Not all children realize that they can ask for help like your children did. Your guiding them through it was essential. Thanks again.
I would like to share w/ everyone that you can help other family members too, no matter where they live. My children & I helped my brother, Tim, who lives in Seattle (we live in British Columbia, Canada). My children & I just lied down in bed in quiteness, said our prayers to our angels & called on Tim’s angels. Tim has had problems w/ ghosts in his apartment too. I got his permission for us to help him. Once we were done, I called Tim again & he definitely could feel the difference. He said his apt “felt lighter”. So the point that I’m trying to make is, location, mileage doesn’t matter when you get rid of ghosts & help out your relatives w/ the help of all your angels.
Hi Darlene, Thank you for the service that you and your children provided. You have mentioned three really key points that I want to emphasize. Psychic children are tuned into at least two levels of three worlds: the physical world, the nonphysical world and the spiritual realm. Since the nonphysical world is a quantum energy world, the psychic works long distance through their heightened senses based upon our right brain’s wholistic processing ability. The second point I’d like to emphasize in Darlene’s work is that she asked permission to work in her brother’s behalf. Because a psychic child or intuitive parents have the ability to see, hear or know non-physical things does not mean that they have to act on those things. And most of us feel compelled to do so sometimes. Permission is one of those unwritten rules that we learn to respect.
Finally, Darlene, my third point is that I respect that you are teaching your children to use these gifts in service with intention and permission. Thanks for sharing so we can all learn from each other.
Hello,
my son is 3.5 and just lately he has started to tell us that he is scared to sleep in his room because the man talks to him and he is a mean guy and scares him. From the minuit my son came home (he is adopted from C. America at 7 months) he has been afraid of his room. He would scream and scream when he was younger when in his room, and when he got old enough he just refused to sleep in there, always running out screaming. He needs to fall asleep with either my husband or myself, he can not fall asleep alone. Lately we have tried to get him to sleep in his room with his brother, he is excited about the idea, but when it comes to night time he gets terrified and says that he can not sleep in there because of the man. I ask him many questions about the man, he says that he is all black with black hair and black eyes, the blackness scares me, should I be scared of that? or is it because it is in the dark? He will talk some about the man but not much. About 3 months ago, my husband ran into a woman at his work that just started telling him things about his life (a psychic) she was very right on about everything she said, she also said that our oldest (the one I am writing about) has the gift. We were shocked but thought maybe that could be a reason he has sleeping problems. The lady also mentioned something about looking at the lines on the palm of my son’s hands, that everyone she knows who is psychic their lines on their hands make complete triangles. It was amazing to see how I have no triangles, my husband has 2, other son none and our oldest has 8 to 10, have you heard of this before? What can I do to help my son not be so scared? Like many others have said that their kids are very sensative, emotional, my son is very sensative and intuitive. Any insight wouuld be great.
Hi Magen
I don’t do palmistry, do I couldn’t comment on the hand aspect.
I do agree that your son is intuitively gifted, without a cultural context for understanding right now. The being that scares him needs to be sent away. If the psychic that your husband spoke to is willing to take on the task, please ask for her help in mentoring you through this process. Otherwise, I feel you need to join me for free on a Wednesday night call where we can handle the matter or schedule a private session with me or someone you know and trust. There isn’t any reason for your son’s fear to continue and to have your household disrupted.
Also please read through the blog posts for calming and soothing exercises which can help your son gain some immediate relief.
Caron
I have a 5 year old daughter who has been intuitive since she was born. She also is a very sensitive, empathetic child and she is very intune to what other people are feeling and need.
She has always seen these purple dots in our house. They used to keep her up at night but now she is pretty used to them. She says they are in all houses, she can only see them in the dark, they aren’t outside, they don’t make any noise and she tries to stay covered up because they can go into your skin and back out. Can someone tell me what these are?
She also has what she calls “bad thoughts”, she says she has them during the day and at night. She says they are all grown up people, no kids or pets, they wear the opposite clothing from our seasons in Idaho, so when it is winter these people are wearing summer clothes and when it is summer they are wearing winter clothes. She says she can’t understand what they say, they aren’t speaking English. They don’t appear to be speaking to her just to each other, they aren’t yelling or doing scary things. She says they are acting in her head. I think she says they are bad thoughts because she doesn’t understand them, but they aren’t telling her to do bad things. Sometimes she has a hard time sleeping because of these thoughts. We have asked the angels to keep the thoughts away so she can sleep and that seems to work most of the time, I also use essential oils to try and calm her mind down when she goes to bed. Can anyone tell me what or who she is seeing? How to help her understand what is happening and why she is seeing these people?
Hi again Ginger,
Sorry to be late in replying. Ice storms and a new wifi company have made connections intermittent. See our response to the light orbs in a previous reply to About Us posting. They blog was getting long, so I thought I would start here and discuss the ghosts she sees. Thank you for your clear and concise description. It makes it easier to answer your question.
I think your daughter is very clever in finding ways to describe “bad thoughts” with those two specific words. It tells me that she knows they are in her inner world (thoughts), and she calls them bad because she feels their energy as negative, like irritating or hurt. She is also perceptive enough to understand they exist beyond her present world. I think this story illustrates what your daughter is aware of…
A friend of mine once visited a renowned resort in West Virginia. Her second honeymoon trip with her husband was interrupted by this awareness. The first night, she kept hearing a distant buzz in her ears, and she became increasingly agitated throughout a restless night of sleep. About 2 AM, she sat up in bed and saw a scene which she described as watching a movie in her head. She witnessed a scene which looked like confederate soldiers died on a battlefield. Union soldiers seemed to gathered in a white tent in the distance, and my friend was aware that they were planning battle strategies, although the conversation was not audible. She saw memories of an event that left an imprint, a historical moment in time, and she associated with the death scene of hundreds of young men, some from the same family, but on different sides of the war. It was an emotionally charged event. Later she did find out that the history of the Inn supported such a scene.
My sense is that your daughter is aware of an emotionally charged scene in the lives of early immigrants in the late 1790s, people who lived in their own community, with their own language, and came to settle the area as a unit of several families. My sense is a bad winter and lack of resources caused them to pass over as a group. Now why your daughter is aware of them can be as simple as the fact she is an empath, and tunes into them. Others who believe in past lives might connect such a life to her own soul memory.
How to handle this? If it were my child, I would handle it as if it were a story that we were writing together if older. For a five year old, we play creative drama and dress up. Some five year olds can do this, and others are too young. So see what you get.
1. Break into the scene like she was walking on to the stage where the play was taking place. Make your living room the stage. Have her place characters where they belong – man, woman, child etc. Once all the characters have a place on the stage, ask her which one she wants to talk to. Ask that character questions. She plays herself asking the question and the character who answers. She can do this by changing places. Or she can be the character and you pay her.
If the character cannot answer…who are you, what are doing, tell me your story, what happened…ask your daughter who can answer her questions, and then talk to that one. Most specifically, ask what is their relationship to your daughter.
2. Another way to handle it is through the use of focusing. When she sees them, ask her to close her eyes and pretend to change the tv channel. Have her do this with her hand. Once the channel is changed, see if she can see a different scene. She may have to change channels several times to refocus her vision. Or have her turn to her internal “angel channel” and see angels instead. Ask the angel not to stop her hearing the sound, but to take care of the vision, like move the souls on, unplug your daughter’s connection to the scene.
3. For her physical environment, get a sound machine for her room at night. They usually have several soothing sounds from white noise, to rain to ocean waves. Let her listen to all of them and choose which one makes her feel good, soothed or sleepy.
4. On the physical level, keep using the essential oils. They are good. Also check out Bach Flower remedies, which are superb, and follow instructions explicitely. as you know from using essential oils, more is not better with flower remedies either.
Please keep me posted.
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