FREE Children Who See Ghosts Tele-Conference August 26, 2008
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Dr. Goode will host a FREE Children Who See Ghosts Tele-Conference for psychic input or intuitive counseling for those who desire to discuss their children being afraid of ghosts. This call is first for those who have posted on the Intuitive children blog their desire for help, understanding or clarity on their child’s situation.
These classes are available several times a month. Registration and participation are free to those struggling to help their children seeing ghosts.
Each FREE Children Who See Ghosts Tele-Conference is limited! Due to the incredible demand and the nature of the conference call, we must limit the seating to those truly interested!
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I have a 7 year old son, and since he was 4 or 5 he has been telling me that he see ghost has had dreams about God and the Blessed mother and he is 7 now and the comments have not stopped! Today he told me he heard a man say hey to him 2 times, I asked if he reconized the voice and he said no it was a low voice (deep voice i think he meant to say) Does anyone have any suggestions where i should haddel this? I did not believe him for a long time but I have recieved signs that he is telling the truth and now well this is where i am.
Hi Michelle
Yes, we are happy to help, but I am not sure what you want help in handling? Hearing a deep voice? Seeing visions of religious figures? Please let me know specifically what you want addressed?
thanks
caron
my son sees ghosts as well….he’s 11yrs old it scares me to im trying to find out why he sees them.
Hi Connie,
I am also interested in why children see ghosts. In fact, it seems to be such a huge question out there………that I am going to write a book, and I will shortly be asking people on this blog to share their stories. The children and parents need a voice, and I want the task.
There are several reasons that eleven year old boys see ghosts. Please let me know which of these sounds like your son?
1. Intuitive children can often be psychic. You might have noticed his sensitivity s he as growing up.
2. Boys in pubescence going through hormonal changes can experience phasing in and out of different stages of awareness. Seeing light orbs, ghosts, shadowy figures are not unusual. Id this is the case, then it passes as he grows up.
3. Recent trauma like auto accident, fights in the home, bumping his head, anything so stressful as to cause him to dissociate.
Please let me know what yu think and then I can help further.
My daughter who is 5 yrs old now, has been seeing ghosts for a while or at least since she was able to talk and tell me about him. It’s one ghost, my dad, who died when abbi was just 4 months old. The strange thing is he says he is protecting her against very bad people that want her. Im sure thats all my dad is doing is protecting his grand-daughter and she likes when he comes to visit her. But lately she is telling me she sees other people like papa Dave. Abbi wakes up every night with horrible nightmares, and this has gone on at least since she could talk to tell me about them. What should I do?
Hi Kellie
Yes, I think we can help………if you can clarify some points of information for me…I don’t have enough information to go on.
1. What specifically did abbi say about bad people and who she needs protection from? At what age did she relay this information?
2. What other people does she see besides her grandfather?
3. How many nights has the waking up been going on? Does it happen at random times? Or a set time each night?
4. What kind of nightmares does she tell you about?
5. How do you handle her waking up with nightmares?
Thanks Kellie.
My son is almost 2 years old and just recently I have been concerned with some of his behavior. It all started 3 days ago. He was in our entry way and I wanted him to come up stairs and he wasn’t listening. His grandpa told him that the boogyman was down there. My son looked over his shoulder and ran up the stairs. His reaction shocked me because I have never heard anyone mention a boogyman to him before. I asked the daycare that he attends if any of the children have been talking about the boogyman. They said that not even children in the preschool program know about the boogyman. This caused me to become more concerned. Just 2 days ago we were up stairs and I was putting clothes away and I heard him say “U Oh U Oh” so I looked and he was pointing at mid air and there was nothing there. He kept on repeating and pointing. I asked him “what, what is U oh” he said “OOoooo” I said “where show mom” he looked and started to walk down our hallway and then he stopped at the door way to the playroom. He pointed and said “U oh, boogyman” and then ran to the stairs. I shut off the light and sat at the stairs with him and explained that there was no boogyman and nothing to be scared of. He kept on looking in the direction of the playroom and kept saying “I scared I scared” as he went down the stairs. Now he will not go in a room by himself even if the light is on even if is favorite show is on. Then just this morning I was getting ready in my bedroom and he was in there with me. I heard something fall in the bathroom. My son went to the bathroom door way started saying “Ooooooo” and talking and then he came back to the bedroom. Then I was standing in the kitchen getting things ready to go and I thought I heard a cat I looked around but then just thought my mind was playing games on my because of the things that were going on with my son. Seconds later I hear him say cat. I asked him “oh you heard a cat too” He pointed to the ground and said “cat” I told him that I didn’t see a cat but he kept on telling me and actually bent down as to pick something up. I watched him for a couple of minutes and then I finally told him that we needed to go. He turned to the ground and waved and said goodbye. I don’t know if he is seeing things or if I am just losing it.
Hi Kayla
No you are not losing it. It is hard to comment at this point since your son is a young two. Toddlers’ and preschoolers’ brains do not function like an adult’s. They are not logical thinkers, they are imaginal thinkers – thinking in pictures and pure feeling sensation. Their brain wave patterns are often in dreamy state, absorbing and feeling all of the world.
If taunted by his grandfather with the bogeyman, it would not be unusual, if your son trusted and bonded with his grandfather, to take his words literally and translate them into feelings. So now instead of feeling safe and secure, your son is always looking over his shoulder due to heightened emotions. The fear is a new emotion, and he has to act it out and play with it in order to see how you will react. I feel he is saying to you, “I am scared, will you walk me in the room? Will you watch my tv show with me?” The way to reassure a two year old is through touch and modeling…hugs, hand holding, doing things together. Unfortunately sometimes two year old also develop a slight phobia about certain things like water that swishes down. The phobias pass, but you have to handle the fear now so he feels safe in his environment.
So if you are asking whether he clairvoyantly sees a cat, is making it up or has a wild imagination, yes, yes, and yes. This is perfectly normal for a two year old whose grandfather started his imagination running. Now he is playing with the concept as a toddler knows how to play, through acting it out, imagining and playing.
I caution you not to attribute this to anything more more right now than a child exploring the world of imagery and seeing how you will react. You can help him not be frightened by acting normal, holding his hand, going to the basement, or the playroom with him and playing, hugging and reassuring.Make it a game, make it fun, and he will move past his fears into fantasy.
I hope this helps, and I would appreciate you letting me know when he returns to normal with your reassurance. Please don’t let him be frightened anymore. He is too young.
Hi Dr. Goode, I cannot believe I am writing this but I am at my wits end and I need to help my son not be scared to death of our bedrooms and the dark. I have a nine year old son who is healthy, athletic, no emotional or psych problems. Justin began to see ghosts, spirits and angels (good and bad) about three years ago. Nothing traumatic happened to him or our family to bring this on. I was raised Catholic, never believing in ghosts or seeing anything ‘weird’ in all of my 46 years. He describes what he sees in great detail and has drawn some pretty disturbing pictures. He sees them even if I am in the room, and now even sees an evil, black one in the upstairs boys’ bathroom at school. We had one friendly ghost, “John” who lived in our house (“who was from the olden times”) even helped Justin once when was about to fall down while getting out of the tub. I have had the house and our bedrooms blessed by our priest. I’ve blessed our house/rooms and demanded for all spirits, ghosts and bad angels to dispel and leave as this is OUR house and it’s a house of God. Still there is no relief. Most times I have to wait down on the landing while he runs upstairs to the bathroom b/cuz he won’t be alone upstairs. He never had these issues as a baby, toddler or young child. Do you have any recommendations?
THANK YOU! Mary Pat
Mary Pat, Thanks for writing. We should speak in person, not online. I grew up catholic also, and did see a lot of things, so I do know the current thinking, and I am glad a priest came to bless the house, but let me understand your thinking more. what did the priest explain the blessing could do? Also where are you geographically located? I may know of some support in the area. What else have you tried? PSychics? Ghostbusters?
If you would like to set an appt, please email me through the contact page with your email. I will email you back. Also I would like to see Justin’s pictures if a scan or jpg is possible.
Thanks
Mary Pat, I seemed to want to reassure you that all of this can be handled. Keep the faith.
I am so glad to have found this site. I have always felt a strange void about our sons room. I over thought it time and time again and make myself comfortable with the fact that he has an odd shaped room. I am 24 years old and I get scared, literally stiff, when I have my back towards the unnatural space. I cannot describe it to you other than it being a corner in is room. No shadows, no stencils, no pictures, just space.
It seems as though my two year old son (Van) has seen something. Well I know he has. He isn’t at the age of lying and contriving yet so it seems outlandish to think he’s wanting attention. He screams and starts sobbing, even clinging to our bodies when we go to comfort him. His body is shaking in terror and he can hardly catch his breath. There has never been any moments that he has ever been so worked up before. Never. It seems like he is beside himself and it’s a matter of 2 minutes.
Is there any reason that nighttime is triggering it? Why would it even scare him if he did see someone. I mean he isn’t afraid of strangers ever, so why would it even bother him to see someone appear in his room.
It troubles me beyond belief and I am getting no sleep. I have always felt energy in places and I also have always been sensitive to thinking I wasn’t alone.
You mentioned location before and we are in San Diego Ca. Right on the coast – two blocks from the water ….. Can you offer any advice, suggestions, peace of mind?
Rosemary
Hi Rosemary
let me ask this for clarification. Is Van getting frightened only at night on a consistent basis? Was this possibly triggered by an event called night terrors, in which about two hours after being put to bed, a toddler or preschooler may wake up screaming, as if terrified?
You said, “I get scared, literally stiff, when I have my back towards the unnatural space. I cannot describe it to you other than it being a corner in is room.” If you feel this from the corner of his room, then imagine how his little body feels. Ut is very possible if the energy makes gives you chills, wouldn’t the same energy make a two year old quake with fear? You are his only comfort, and if you are also scared stiff, then what recourse does he have? I am not saying you shouldn’t be scared, but I am saying you may lose sleep until you can resolve the environmental situation. And in the meantime, thank you for being there for your son. I agree with you that he sees what he sees.
I read that the area of your home is a doorway for energy. I had a similar situation year’s ago on Long Island where an older home had kind of a doorway for ghosts. the woman in the house learned to talk to a couple of sailors who needed to go “home.” In her case, the water seemed a medium for ghosts, and her house was a clear invitation to hangout with her. Do you know a local medium who could read the energy in your home and clear the way?
Caron
My son’s father recently passed. From time to time he sees him in my room. He is only 2 years old. And when he sees his dad he describes in detail the angels that are with him. Sometimes baby angels, and another time one big Angel, but he says his dady doesn’t have wings (just hands). I didn’t even know he knew what an angel was. His dad passed during Christmas and we went to a friends house and there was a Nativity under the tree. He said “Look Mommy there is an Angel like with Daddy.”
My son even told me one time that his Daddy wanted to sleep with us in my room and if that was ok with me? And then showed me where his daddy was laying in the bed on the pillow.
These are only a few of the times. Is he really seeing something or is it just his imagination or just missing him? It’s not something he does on a daily basis, usually late at night a few times a month..
When he is seeing these “visions” I just sit and listen.
What should I say to him? How long will he have these “visions”?
Hi my son is now 5yrs old he is now seeing what he calles spookies. He has always looked up when nothing was there and followed things that never moved. He is now getting very scared of these “spookies”. He will now come in to my bedroom and hide under my bed and not move until they leave. There is 3 little kids that he talks about. One is a little girl and the other 2 are boys. The little girl and one of the boys are nice and they want to play the other one is like a bully. My son tells me that he mean little boy tells the others to go away. I don’t know what to do with these “spookies.” It is really bothering me now because it is interfering with him going to bed at night, he will not go to bed until they leave him alone or he goes into my room to sleep. As of last night there is now a new ghost it is a male and he wears socks and pants but my son can not see his face. He does not say anything to him but he is scared now. My son does not want them around any longer because they do not leave him alone unless I am in the room other than that they will not leave him alone. Please help me and my son I do not know what to do anymore there are more and more comeing around these days. Please help a scared mom and son.
Kenisha
Dear BabyAngels
There is nothing more you need to do for your son than what you are already doing…accepting, listening, honoring his realities, and going with his lead. Yes, I sense he misses his Dad, but not in the sense of the physical loss that you might feel, but more like having his presence around, so his dad comes round with his presence. We cannot really say whether a child is making it up, because for a child, there is no “making it up.” A child’s brain wave state is usually in the alpha waves, relaxed, intuitive, open to dreamy realms. So I would say your son does see the angels and his dad, and is extremely lucky to have his dad available to him. As for how long will this go on, o one will know except your son. He’ll see him as long as he needs him. The older your son becomes – toward 5 to 7 years – the brain waves patterns will change again and those intuitive doors might close. It is not always predictable, but rather each child decides that for themselves.
Kenisha
Are you able to move through your own fear for the sake of your son? The best way to do this is to help your son talk with the spookies and then tell them to go away. He needs to say that he doesn’t want them there any more and they scare him. So that means he would have to say no to the one who wants to play with him. Most of the ghosts who hang around children are seeking children’s company and vice versa. Once they understand they cannot stay, most leave willingly. So can you take your son by the hand, and face the ghosts together, an tell him what to say, an then wait for his response. Stick with your son through these spooky conversations until the ghosts are gone. They do not control your environments, you do!
Hello,
My son is 3 and he has NEVER slept through the night, he will wake up every night screaming on the top of his lungs, sometimes for hours and you can’t hold him or talk to him or he will get even louder. Just recently he has been screaming at night that he sees ghosts, and when he goes on the potty at night he stares into the kitchen and with a terrified face he shouts, “they are looking at me”. My question is can he see ghosts? or is it just his imagination or night terrors?? The other day I was going to pick up my daughter from school and he was showing my his face, pointing to his nose and we were going over his facial features, then he started to tell me that his face is just a mask, when I asked him what was under his “mask” he told me that I didn’t want to know. I am getting concerned!!
Hi , before we dive in to the ghost aspect, let me adk a few questions:
what sugar, drinks or food does your son have before he goes to bed?
do you feel he is more active than other children his age?
Night terrors usually happen around 2 to 4, but not on a consistent basis as you describe normally. Try this, to disrupt a night terror cycle, wake your son up between 2 and 2.5 hours, before he enters the deeper sleep patterns, in which night terrors happen. Then put him back to bed. You can do this several nights in a row to see if it makes a difference in lessening the waking up. The state of mind he wakes up in can appear in a child’s mind that others see him.
So can he see ghosts? We don’t know because the best instance you’ve provided is when he wakes up – and what we call a hypnogogic state – a sleepy or drowsy state when the brain produces images.
I would believe him and help calm his fears as you have been doing. I don’t have enough info to answer your question in more depth. The book, Raising Intuitive Children, does offer more info on this topic than I can give you in a blog. So let mer know your son’s name and if there are further instances, and I’ll see if I can help.
Caron