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Newborn babies cry in their native tongue December 7, 2009

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Language patterns apparent from the start; babies pick up traits in womb LiveScience
 
By Charles Q. Choi
Special to LiveScience

From their very first days, the cries of newborns already bear the mark of the language their parents speak, scientists now find.

French newborns tend to cry with rising melody patterns, slowly increasing in pitch from the beginning to the end, whereas German newborns seem to prefer falling melody patterns, findings that are both consistent with differences between the languages.

This suggests infants begin picking up elements of language in the womb, long before their first babble or coo.

Prenatal exposure

Prenatal exposure to language was known to influence newborns. For instance, past research showed they preferred their mother’s voice over those of others.

Still, researchers thought infants did not imitate sounds until much later on. Although three-month-old babies can match vowel sounds that adults make, this skill depends on vocal control just not physically possible much earlier.

However, when scientists recorded and analyzed the cries of 60 healthy newborns when they were three to five days old — 30 born into French-speaking families, 30 into German-speaking ones — their analysis revealed clear differences in the melodies of their cries based on their native tongue.

Imitating Mom
 
The way babies imitate melody patterns relies just on a command over their voiceboxes they had before birth, instead of the more advanced control of their vocal tracts they need for vowel sounds. As such, they can begin mimicking their mothers “at that early age,” said researcher Kathleen Wermke, a medical anthropologist at the University of Würzburg in Germany.

“Newborns are probably highly motivated to imitate their mother’s behavior in order to attract her and hence to foster bonding,” Wermke said.

The researchers conjecture that the development of spoken language is rooted in melody, and that these findings support their idea. “Music and language might have co-evolved for a certain time during evolution and share a primordial form of communication system,” Wermke told LiveScience.

Rainbow Tree December 2, 2009

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Near-Death Correlation & Kids Who See Ghosts November 25, 2009

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There is overlap in the fields of study between children who see ghosts and children and adults who experience near-death states. I’ve invited P. M. H. Atwater to share her views to enhance our understanding of the children’s near-death experiences and interactions with the other side.

P. M. H. Atwater shares: “All of our brains are shifting, and I want to start out here with certain facts:

§   Children see invisible things or interact with other worlds or have this intuitive ability.

§   Not only is that normal; it is necessary, as you’ll see in our discussion.

§   We’re speaking first about the development of the temporal lobes, approximately from the ages of 2 through 6. This is the birth of imagination. [Brain’s temporal lobes are beneath the temples and include areas concerned with speech comprehension.]

“The birth of children’s imagination involves the temporal lobes taking in and sorting all these different forms, shapes, colors and sounds so children can build incredible neural libraries that enable us to have perspective and make comparisons as we grow older. Such experiences give us a solid base for what might be expected of us as we live here on the earth plane.

“The development of the temporal lobes is so important.  Up to around the age of six, it is primary in the way children see and respond to the world around them.  In my research of 277 child experiencers of near-death states, between the ages of birth to 15 years, most of my cases clustered within two age spans— from birth to 15 months, and the other from three years of age until not quite six.  This is significant.

“Previous research by a myriad of professionals have long since established that the years of three to five is when most children have invisible friends, are highly psychic, see demons/angels/fairies/aliens, and spend a lot of time in the imaginal worlds. This is the birth of imagination and absolutely necessary for the growth of a healthy child.  What I have been able to establish is that during those same years, in fact, from birth to not quite six, is when the largest number of children appear also to have near-death experiences.

“The profound enhancements that can occur with the very young after experiencing the phenomenon raises the question:  is it possible to have temporal lobe expansion BEFORE temporal lobe development?

“All of the different papers and studies that have been done indicate that these are the ages when most children have invisible friends, are highly psychic, see demons, angels and fairies, spend a lot of time in the imaginal worlds, and that is just so necessary.

“What I’m seeing, as a researcher of near-death states, is the experiences and talents of the new kids, referring to millennial children…Indigo children and Crystal children] are matching near-death kids. These experiences are transformations of consciousness.  I think the process is inborn in the new kids.  The kids don’t have to change through an experience like a near-death state.

“So I’m looking at near-death children as a neutral model to better understand what’s happening with our new children. I return repeatedly to the fact that this is normal brain development, and if children are going to have a healthy brain, they’re going to go through stages like seeing ghosts. We’re not talking about imaginings or scary things or fluffy things; we’re talking about normal brain development.

“I’ve recommended repeatedly that these kids need mentors. They need to be able to talk, and be listened to by someone they can trust.  They need a comfortable person who will say, ‘Now here are some things to look for to help you recognize what’s beneficial and helpful and what’s hurtful.”  This is covered thoroughly in the back of The New Children and Near-Death Experiences (Bear & Company, 2003)

Helping Children Find Spirituality through Nature by Susan Gale November 6, 2009

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When Edgar Cayce was asked, while in a trance state, what was the best way to teach children about spirituality, he responded in Reading 5747-1 by saying,

Then, as to the development of the mind of the child, develop its imaginative forces rather than the material or objective forces.  Acquaint such a mind with the activities in nature, and train especially in the laws of recompense as is seen in nature day by day.  Also in those activities that make for a clean body, a clean mind, and the same recompense as in nature should be required in the activities of the developing mind of the individual.  A clean, healthy body makes for a better indwelling of a healthy, clean mind, so that the spirit may manifest the better.

Nowhere better than in nature may we show our children how living within the Universal Laws provides us with life’s abundance.  We can also show how when a seed falls in a place lacking the necessary balance, it will not flourish.  These parallels between nature and our own lives about abundance and balance are endless.

Watching the rhythms in the natural cycles can lead to becoming aware of the cycles in one’s own body.  Watching the perseverance of a squirrel trying to get to its food can lead to talks about perseverance in one’s life.  Understanding the place each being has in the whole plan can help the child understand there is a master plan and that each of us is essential in maintaining that balance.  Seeing what happens in a stream that is not kept clean is a startling reminder of what can happen in one’s own body when it is not kept clean inside and out.

Through nature, you can help your child focus and learn to remain still.  Birds are fascinating creatures to watch, but they fly away instantly when there are sudden movements or loud noises.  I can remember spending much time with my son, and then my granddaughters, watching birds in the yard.  We also would watch the butterflies taking long drinks from the flowers near our front door.  We would set out sweets and watch the ants cart it all back to their homes.  Each of these events requires the same focus, the same stillness as is required for meditation.

Tom Brown, a naturalist and author, has a deep understanding of this process:  using nature to teach meditation or the sacred silence as Grandfather taught him to call it.  This is how he describes it:  “When you teach children to meditate, it usually must be done under the guise of some other activity.  This way the children will concentrate on learning a new lesson, never guessing that you are teaching them to slow down and be at peace.  Grandfather taught us to meditate, to reach the “sacred silence” more by practice and example, rather than by rote teaching.  Grandfather knew it would be difficult to teach any child to meditate since children are naturally active…  Thus, he worked the “sacred silence” into other lessons, so that the act of meditation became an accessory to the main lesson.  We learned meditation and relaxation while quietly waiting for animals, where we were required to sit still for long periods of time.  We spent hours working with our hands, doing detailed bead or quillwork, carving or making intricate paintings.  We learned to relax by watching tracks and tracking, all of which caused us to slow down, and to find that deep inner peace.”  [1]

When exploring nature with your child, it does not matter if anyone knows the right names.  You can make up your own as you begin your adventures!  In one of the state parks where we often took the children hiking, there was a tree shaped like a flamingo’s neck.  Of course, each summer the experienced camper could not wait to tell the new children about our very own “flamingo tree.”  Yet it is also a good feeling to find a plant, animal, insect, or bird in a guidebook and learn its correct name.

Patterns are another wonderful aspect of nature.  Not only are there the infinite patterns in the tree bark, shadows, and leaves, but also the patterns of the cycles.  Nothing about the natural world is wasted in its patterns of growth, decomposition and renewal.  And while the realities of the food chain are not always pleasant to encounter, it does provide a great tool to talk about the nature of intent.  For in the food chain, the intent is to survive rather than to harm or to make sport of causing death.

Even in winter, there is abundance.  The snow makes tracking especially easy of both domestic and wild animals.  One year, our school went to a park where we found enormous paw prints alongside huge boot prints.  Of course, we allowed our imaginations to run wild as we followed this “giant and his enormous wolf.”  The children were rather disappointed when we finally caught up with the man and his ordinary, although large, dog.

Another eye opening experience during the winter is to give the children paint chip samples and ask them to find the multitude of colors that may match.  Many novices will maintain that the only color to be found is gray!  However, after just a few minutes, they see that many colors are present, even in the wintertime.

With the intuitive child, nature can bring even more delights.  Many of the children can see the fairy families as well as the other wee folk that live in the yard.  They can easily sense, see, and/or feel the auras of the plants and trees and can learn to read the health of these beings as easily as they can the health of people.  It is also a wonderful time to learn to communicate with the animals, insects and other life forms.

Children can find plants that heal by this kind of communication as well as plants that will provide nourishment.  While it is always wise to confirm their impressions, they will eventually learn what friendly plants “feel” like and what the harmful ones “feel” like as well.

That some children do know how to use plants to help themselves without any instruction is illustrated by the following story.  One summer, three-year-old Ella got upset about something no one understood.  While in the car with her mother, she just started bawling.  By the time she got to her grandmother’s house, she was almost out of control; yet she still could not tell anyone what was wrong.  Her family then tried many things to help her calm down, but to no avail.  Her grandmother finally just opened the door and sent her out into the front yard.  As she walked outside, Ella took a deep breath, walked over to a Cosmos and buried her face in the center of one of the flowers.  She then took some of the petals and rubbed them all over her face.  After standing there for a minute or two, Ella then returned to the house completely calm and refreshed.

Knowing how to communicate with the animals greatly enriches a child’s experiences when outside or even in places like a zoo.  Once, when our school visited the Bronx Zoo, I commented that I would like to have seen one of the animals at a closer range.  Several minutes later, one of the boys ran up to me and said, “it took me all this time to convince it to come to see you, and it will be really mad if you do not come!”  With that he took my arm and led me back to the animal, which was indeed standing near the fence, watching me walk towards it with a rather skeptical eye.

Another wonderful experience is to sit quietly in the woods for about 15 minutes.  After this length of time, the animals begin to accept the presence of a human and go about their usual routine.  By remaining perfectly still, many things can be seen, heard and experienced.  Children are often in great awe after such a time spent motionless in the woods.  Intuitive children are able to have a far richer experience with all their senses being tuned to the energetic aspect of life as well.

Nature can also teach children another perspective on time.  In the natural world, beings eat when they are hungry, rest when tired, and play when so moved!  Life is not regulated artificially by a clock, but rather by the inner clock that is present within each of us.  The sense of timelessness prevails in the natural setting.

If we desire to teach our children an appreciation of life and its cycles and rhythms, then spending time outdoors is one of the best places to do so.  It does not need to be in a wilderness setting.  A square foot of ground will also suffice, for it also contains an ecosystem from which much can be learned and appreciated.  Whether children possess intuitive abilities or not, they can each learn to become more at one with the cycle of life that keeps our planet thriving.


Bibliography

Brown, Tom, with Judy Brown.  Tom Brown’s Field Guide to Nature and Survival for Children. The Berkley Publishing Group.  New York, 1989

Susan Gale, co-author of Psychic Children and Soulful Parenting, is the manager of A Place of Light in Cherry Valley, MA.  With 30+ years of professional experience working with families as a teacher, camp director and owner of a children’s center that included a pre-K through grade accredited school, she currently helps people of all ages understand, develop and control their intuitive gifts.  For more info, please visit www.placeoflight.net.



[1] Brown, Tom, p 25

Intuitive Intelligence Comes of Age November 5, 2009

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In today’s world, we focus on the child’s natural core genius. Intuitive intelligence is part of children’s core genius. This natural intelligence can grow into a unique talent. Children with intuitive intelligences are ready to take their place in the world.  Our job is to assist them.

Intuitive intelligence is an essential part of the human mind, which includes our conscious processes and unconscious processes—thought perception, emotion, will, memory, and imagination. Intuitive intelligence involves nurturing self-awareness of the inner world, the outer world, and the connection between them.

Recognition for the intuitive mind with its way of discovery and knowing has advanced significantly in the last decades.

What started with Carl Jung’s concept that people have four primary paths for processing information has evolved into the intricacies of brain mapping in the field of neuroscience. We know how we learn, which part of the brain is involved and how to reprogram patterns that don’t work through the concept of neuroplasticity.

The renaissance of intuitive intelligence has arrived. Let’s trace the progress of intuition over the last several decades as it made its way into mainstream thought and awareness. Only recently has western, modern society accepted and found intuitive intelligence useful.

Intuitive Intelligences

Intuitive intelligence stands as an entity deserving recognition. Brain mapping using EEG topography found that creativity and intuition are associated with theta waves usually linked with daydreaming or fantasizing. Theta waves are calm states in which intellectual activity at the conscious level isn’t occurring. Children and adults with ADHD produce excessive theta waves.

Intuitive intelligence operates on gestalts or whole pieces of information and functions from our memory, not logic. Intuitive ability is finally recognized as the fuel behind innovation, creative thinking, inspiration and psychic experiences.

Let’s clarify terms:

§ Intuitive intelligence – a system of processing information from a gestalt that arrives spontaneously, beyond intellectually known information or evident thought. Every human has an intuitive processing system. Like any intelligence, different people will have varying degrees of strength.

§ Intuition – a talent or ability to grasp or understand spontaneous perception, feeling or information. This talent would be a strength of the intuitive intelligence range.

Like musical prodigies and math geniuses, children display their talents differently.

Intuitive children with highly tuned sensory perceptions display their gifts in what our cultures might think are unconventional ways. For example, how many parents are ready to believe that their children see ghosts or who, at a young age, have an entrepreneurial idea that could be successful?

Education, parenting and psychology professionals recognize that children have multiple intelligences, and intuitive intelligence is the new kid on the block. All intelligences exist on a continuum of normal to gifted. There are math prodigies, musical geniuses and intuitive psychics.

The children of today stretch and challenge our learning. Parents of intuitive children need first to commit to the role of parent. We have to direct expressions of inventive and creative thoughts, help empaths deal with emotional overwhelm and establish resilience, face fears of ghosts. Children with intuitive intelligence, challenged by cultural systems which do not know how to connect with or teach them, need permission to follow their personal path and optimize their talent. We can give that permission and model it for them by developing our intuitive parenting. .

©2009 by Dr. Caron Goode. Dr. Goode is the founder of the Academy for Coaching Parents International (www.academyforcoachingparents.com) at the forefront of the parent coaching movement to disseminate the coaching model of empowerment for parents. Her most recent book, Raising Intuitive Children at www.raisingintuitivechilren.com has won the National Best Book award for the parenting\family category.

PARENTING IN AWARENESS by Doreen Fisher November 4, 2009

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Using awareness to deviate from learned parenting behaviors.

I remember the very moment that my daughter was born barely 9 years ago. It’s not a moment most mothers would ever forget, but I remember my exact thought…”It’s time to grow up – today.” It’s not that I felt overly immature at the moment just before that, but the immediate knowing that this tiny being was wholly dependent on me and would grow to learn from my every move was cathartic and intimidating at the same time.

A rush of emotions and thoughts came in despite the fact that I had just given birth — a beautiful, natural, gentle birth, but exhausting nonetheless. I knew at that very moment that it was up to me to break a long history of common parenting styles which I did not intend to follow. I had no idea just how difficult that would prove to be.

Generations of habits, repeat behaviors and semi-conscious parenting were deeper in my psyche than I knew or cared to admit. As my daughter grew and my son was born, the daily stress of parenting brought out the very reactions that I swore would never escape my lips; they fell out or were just barely caught in the nick of time. I quickly learned two important things: 1) I was parenting by design; and 2) it was going to require 24/7 awareness if I was going to succeed in gentle, respectful and non-violent parenting.

I recall one story that my daughter always asks me to repeat. I’m not sure why she likes this story, but it’s almost as if she is reminding me that I’m doing okay and making right choices. My husband was on the road touring with a band and complete exhaustion was becoming a normal existence for me. My newborn son had just been released from NICU with a heart defect, and he and I were both decompressing from a bit of ICU psychosis. Needless to say, sleep was a rare treat. I was making dinner and took out some tater tots and put them on the cookie sheet on the stove. My daughter got angry at me because she wanted to eat them out of the bag (she was 3), so she reached up and yanked the cookie sheet off of the stove and the tater tots went flying. I had an immediate reaction and reached my up hand preparing to spank her with about as much force as I could muster when (as if in slow motion) I had a last minute awareness of what I was about to do and instead scooped her up and gave her a big hug. I was shaking and crying. And she was laughing. She gave me a big hug and never knew how close she came to becoming yet another child victim of corporal punishment.

I knew at that moment that it was possible to change the course of history and make new decisions in how we parent our children. I know that the abused grow to become the abuser, but I also know that this is a choice. But, it requires awareness – awareness and intention. We must first set the intention to parent in a gentle, loving manner. Every day I wake up and tell myself that I’m going to parent with love and patience and listen with an open heart. Every night I go to bed and forgive myself for anything that slipped through. And every day, I take responsibility for my actions, make amends for any actions or words that fall outside the scope of what I consider loving and gentle (holding myself to a high standard on that definition) and acknowledge to my children when it was me, not them, who brought out any transgression.

Doreen Fisher is a musician, home educator, business owner and philanthropist. She lives in Dallas with her husband, their 2 incredibly intuitive children, Sammy the cat and Tibblett the bunny. dfisher@parentinginawareness.com;  www.parentinginawareness.com; www.rainbowoutsourcing.com; www.pientre.com

Discipline & Spirit, excerpt from Spiritual Parenting by Susan Gale November 3, 2009

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Discipline, only after love, is the most important thing a parent can give a child. However, discipline is not to be confused with punishment. Punishment is probably the least effective thing a parent can offer a child. Punishment only teaches children to lie, make excuses, learn ways to avoid being caught, and resent authority as well as create innumerable emotional problems. It is generally arbitrarily administered and designed to create suffering, which is not our natural state of being.

Discipline is the ability to control oneself and one’s actions. Discipline is based on a partnership with the child in a movement towards being able to express the best that is within oneself. Discipline is allowing natural consequences to occur, providing help to the child when needed to get past those natural consequences. Most deeply spiritual people have had to exercise supreme discipline in regards to their physical and mental endurance during their preparations, which causes them to draw upon their spiritual strength to bear up under their ordeals. Edgar Cayce himself was told that he developed the ability to go outside his body in order to heal his wounds.

Parents can best teach discipline when they do not fake reality. In remembering the Law of Self, we are to know the truth of our beings. We do not pretend that things are otherwise than what they are. Maslow heralded this ability in his eight characteristics of the self-actualized person:  the ability to shed defense mechanisms.

Conflict Resolution: Conflict is inevitable. It helps us to face our shortcomings, develops strength of character, and helps us define our values. What is important is that we are able to resolve conflict without verbal or emotional violence. The first step to resolving a conflict that occurs within the family is to decide just whose problem the conflict is. Too often the parents take ownership of all conflicts, attempting to settle them for their children. If the conflict is between two of the children in the family, then the problem is theirs to resolve. While the skill of resolving conflict requires initial guidance, the children will eventually be able to resolve conflicts, if indeed the situations escalate to that level, independently. Based on the Creative Conflict Resolution program and the teaching of Joseph Bruchac of the Abenaki tribe, here are the three questions that need to be asked:

1. What happened?

Each child needs to state their version of what happened. The other child cannot interrupt (a talking stick is often helpful during this as only the person who holds the stick can talk… parents cannot even interrupt!). Children soon learn that each person has a slightly, if not drastically, different version of the event!

2. What did I do to contribute to the problem?

This is probably the most difficult part for the child. Names cannot be mentioned during this part. Thus the child cannot say “He knocked down my building so I hit him.”  She hit him because she became lost in her emotions, and she needs to say it this way so that she takes responsibility for her actions. Sometimes the child needs to say simply, “I acted like a victim and let her wreck everything.”  Sometimes the child needs to say, “I teased him until he could not take it any more. I went too far.”

Being able to state honestly how she contributed to the problem goes a long ways towards shedding defense mechanisms. Defense mechanisms are a great deterrent to solving conflicts as so much time and much energy is wasted trying to get past them.

3. What I need from you to get along from this point on.

This is when the parent must relinquish all control. The children will come to terms as to how they will get along. After all, getting along is the goal… not punishment!  Sometimes a simple “sorry” suffices. Sometimes doing the other child’s chore is enough.

When the conflict is between the parent and child, the parent at this step most often wants to know how s/he will know that this will not happen again. This is a time to talk about trust and how important it is to a family being strong. This is a time to talk about how important it is that the parent can depend upon the child to keep the family strong and walking in peace. This is the time to talk about how very important it is that no one pushes another beyond what they can endure as that is not the way of love, but rather the way of being destructive.

 

Susan Gale, co-author of Psychic Children and Soulful Parenting, is the manager of A Place of Light in Cherry Valley, MA.  With 30+ years of professional experience working with families as a teacher, camp director and owner of a children’s center that included a pre-K through grade accredited school, she currently helps people of all ages understand, develop and control their intuitive gifts.  For more info, please visit www.placeoflight.net.

 

Staying Out of Fear by Hillary Raimo November 2, 2009

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Angel Ad High DPIEverywhere I go, I hear people talking about one thing or another that they are afraid of. It seems to be at the forefront of everyone’s mind lately. I am afraid of this, or that, the flu, other people, change, leaving a job they hate, or partner they no longer relate too. The list goes on and on. In fact, they are so afraid, they simply do not move at all. They sit still and freeze, and this affects us on all levels. Fear has this way of paralyzing you to the point where you will not do anything. Simply put, if you are afraid, you will stay the same. We won’t live, we won’t change, we won’t question what we are told, and we will do whatever anyone else tells us because we are sacred.

We walk around with this eternal question of “OH NO, What should I do?” and we hand over our personal sense of power to anyone willing to offer us guidance. We throw away our intuition, our common sense, and look to what everyone else is doing instead.

This is the true danger of the fear mindset. It causes us to step out of our power center, where we have a strong sense of who we are, and where our balance lives, into a state of unbalanced living where power is put outside of us. In response as energy bodies, our vibration lowers, our light dims, and all kinds of things can then come in, including the flu and other dis-eases.

When we do get sick, use it as an opportunity to take a look at where your life is unbalanced, and why. Then make the necessary changes to regain balance, and nurture yourself, until your health and stronger vibration/light has returned.

It always surprises me how many people who live in fear forget to laugh, and take themselves too seriously. However, if you think about it, it would make perfect sense, because when you are in fear, you do take life and yourself too seriously because it is a threat to your very existence. Laughter and lightheartedness are hard to come by when you are in fear. Two of your natural born qualities that keep you happy, balanced and healthy.

We all fall prey to Fear; it is a great teacher. A very hard taskmaster. It will ask things of you and push you through boundaries you never even realized you had. It is when you get stuck in fear that depression develops, ill health and a variety of other physical manifestations. All asking you to stop, look and learn.

We may not be conscious of being afraid. Fear manifests in a plethora of ways in our lives. How we judge others, how we criticize ourselves, why we stay in abusive or unsatisfying relationships, or unfulfilled jobs. It is why we find any excuse not to move forward with our dreams and yearnings. It is why we look at ourselves in the mirror with any other emotion except pure unconditional love. It is why we cringe in the corner afraid to move on any level in our lives.

Facing your fears head on, and conquering them like a good enemy is a wonderful way to move through the heart of your fears, so you can find the gold treasure that awaits in the lessons it has to teach you. The energy hold it has on you and your life then vaporizes leaving you clear, balanced and for the better because of it.

When we find others in a state of fear, we have to seek the mirror for ourselves. Instead of trying to solve it for them, or run away because we fear being close to people who are afraid, look at the why for yourself.

Having compassion for others in fear means you have compassion for yourself when you are afraid. But remember compassion does not mean you have to take on their situation, simply witnessing it and loving them unconditionally is enough.

So instead of avoiding fear, when they surface, or you see fear mirrored back to you by the situations in your life, stop, look and learn.

Recipe for Fear Relief:

1 Cup of Laughter

3 Ounces of Silliness

4 boxes of Creative Expression

1 stick of Nature

Bake until you learn something new about yourself

Hillary Raimo teaches, lectures, and has written on a variety of empowerment issues related to multi-dimentional healing and spirituality. As host The Hillary Raimo Show: Matters for Mind, Body & Spirit now heard in over 29 countries worldwide, she speaks on a variety of topics related to higher consciousness. Hillary teaches at a variety of venues nationwide, and leads tours to sacred sites worldwide. www.hillaryraimo.com for details

5 Ways to Discover If Your Child Is Intuitive November 1, 2009

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Every child has the capacity for high intuitive intelligence just as each could be a musical maestro or a mathematical genius. Intuition is a natural intelligence that all children possess. Intuitive development depends on the environment, parental support, and education. Some children are highly skilled or gifted in this talent in the same way that others have a talent for math, music, languages, or physical dexterity. By determining whether your child has high intuitive intelligence, you’ll find the clues to nurture her talent and help her use this to find her success in life.

Intuitive intelligence is one system of processing information from a gestalt that arrives spontaneously, beyond intellectually known information or evident thought. Every human has an intuitive processing system. Like any intelligence, different people will have varying degrees of strength.

Children’s intuitive intelligence manifests in different ways along a continuum of normal skills to gifted talents:

  1. Children who learn through feelings and process information kinesthetically. (Intuitive learning mode)
  2. Children who are creative and artistic and intuition drives their motivation. (Artistic drive for exploring and creating)
  3. Children whose intuitive intelligence is like a radar reading and empathizing with other people’s feelings. (Empathy and interpersonal skills)
  4. Children who have intuitive episodes like dreams or a flash of creative insight. (Deep insight, precognition)
  5. Children who are psychic. (Awareness of non-physical worlds through all senses or a specific sense.)

Intuition is the common denominator of these talents and, all children have the same intuitive capacities. Like musical prodigies, children display their talents differently.

Education, parenting, and psychology professionals recognize that intuitive intelligence is the new kid on the block. Parents who know how to spot intuitive intelligence may find an overlap of skill clusters.

  1. Creative and inspired artists – John always heard music in his head, and at age five, his teacher referred him for psychological testing because he hummed all the time. John was also a daydreamer. His mother said no to psychological testing and found a school that supported John’s musical creativity. By age 11, he was playing the music he heard in his head when he wasn’t in school. Music absorbed his attention and poured from his soul. When others worried about his social skills and his lack of other interests, he stuck to his creativity, and it paid off. John’s dream of playing in a band came true in high school and continued through his adult years.
  2. Sensitive and empathic feelers – Eleven-year-old Laurie was crying silently. She had just finished reading the book, The Yearling by Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings. The story portrayed the life of a boy named Jody Baxter, a solitary soul who developed a friendship with a deer. Her dad sat on the corner of her bed, ready to listen. Laurie discussed her sadness from the book, which reminded her of a classmate who was sad because his brother, a Marine, had died recently in the Middle East. “I feel it all here, Dad.” Laurie pressed her heart like she was holding her emotions inside.
  3. Talents involving inner psychic awareness  – Preschool children have invisible friends. Psychic teens may experience deja-vus, like they been somewhere before. Some children experience strong dreams that feel real to them, and some children see and speak with angels who are their friends or guides.

Our kids need our support and you, the parent, are the only one who knows how to interpret your intuitive experiences or those of your children. Knowing the challenges faced by the intuitive child enables parents to discuss, plan and help with personality and skill development.

 

©2009 by Dr. Caron Goode. Dr. Goode is the founder of the Academy for Coaching Parents International (www.academyforcoachingparents.com) at the forefront of the parent coaching movement to disseminate the coaching model of empowerment for parents. Her most recent book, Raising Intuitive Children at www.raisingintuitivechilren.com has won the National Best Book award for the parenting\family category.

 

5 Ways to Discover If Your Child Is Intuitive November 1, 2009

Posted by coachingparents in Dr. Caron Goode, Intuitive Parenting, Sandra Couts, intuitive children.
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Every child has the capacity for high intuitive intelligence just as each could be a musical maestro or a mathematical genius. Intuition is a natural intelligence that all children possess. Intuitive development depends on the environment, parental support, and education. Some children are highly skilled or gifted in this talent in the same way that others have a talent for math, music, languages, or physical dexterity. By determining whether your child has high intuitive intelligence, you’ll find the clues to nurture her talent and help her use this to find her success in life.

Intuitive intelligence is one system of processing information from a gestalt that arrives spontaneously, beyond intellectually known information or evident thought. Every human has an intuitive processing system. Like any intelligence, different people will have varying degrees of strength.

Children’s intuitive intelligence manifests in different ways along a continuum of normal skills to gifted talents:

  1. Children who learn through feelings and process information kinesthetically. (Intuitive learning mode)
  2. Children who are creative and artistic and intuition drives their motivation. (Artistic drive for exploring and creating)
  3. Children whose intuitive intelligence is like a radar reading and empathizing with other people’s feelings. (Empathy and interpersonal skills)
  4. Children who have intuitive episodes like dreams or a flash of creative insight. (Deep insight, precognition)
  5. Children who are psychic. (Awareness of non-physical worlds through all senses or a specific sense.)

Intuition is the common denominator of these talents and, all children have the same intuitive capacities. Like musical prodigies, children display their talents differently.

Education, parenting, and psychology professionals recognize that intuitive intelligence is the new kid on the block. Parents who know how to spot intuitive intelligence may find an overlap of skill clusters.

  1. Creative and inspired artists – John always heard music in his head, and at age five, his teacher referred him for psychological testing because he hummed all the time. John was also a daydreamer. His mother said no to psychological testing and found a school that supported John’s musical creativity. By age 11, he was playing the music he heard in his head when he wasn’t in school. Music absorbed his attention and poured from his soul. When others worried about his social skills and his lack of other interests, he stuck to his creativity, and it paid off. John’s dream of playing in a band came true in high school and continued through his adult years.
  2. Sensitive and empathic feelers – Eleven-year-old Laurie was crying silently. She had just finished reading the book, The Yearling by Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings. The story portrayed the life of a boy named Jody Baxter, a solitary soul who developed a friendship with a deer. Her dad sat on the corner of her bed, ready to listen. Laurie discussed her sadness from the book, which reminded her of a classmate who was sad because his brother, a Marine, had died recently in the Middle East. “I feel it all here, Dad.” Laurie pressed her heart like she was holding her emotions inside.
  3. Talents involving inner psychic awareness  – Preschool children have invisible friends. Psychic teens may experience deja-vus, like they been somewhere before. Some children experience strong dreams that feel real to them, and some children see and speak with angels who are their friends or guides.

Our kids need our support and you, the parent, are the only one who knows how to interpret your intuitive experiences or those of your children. Knowing the challenges faced by the intuitive child enables parents to discuss, plan and help with personality and skill development.

 

©2009 by Dr. Caron Goode. Dr. Goode is the founder of the Academy for Coaching Parents International (www.academyforcoachingparents.com) at the forefront of the parent coaching movement to disseminate the coaching model of empowerment for parents. Her most recent book, Raising Intuitive Children at www.raisingintuitivechilren.com has won the National Best Book award for the parenting\family category.